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Friday, July 23, 2004

Alot of things are running through my mind and I have to agree with Winnie that life is always about making choices. We will spend all our lifetime deciding. For example: To go or not to go? To study or not to study? To work or not to work? To buy or not to buy? To love or not to love?

A very close friend is currently trapped in a love triangle. We're trying hard to solve her confusion but the biggest problem is she like both guys and no matter who she chooses to be with she will hurt sumone. I can understand how she feels now coz I've been thru it myself. Was trapped in a dilemma a few years ago. Similar situation not once but twice and I got to choose between 2 guys. I was really confused and I know that nobody can help me on this other then myself. In the end, I've made the choices which I did not regret.

In the first case, I've decided to give up on both, this will be fair to all the 3 of us. Thou we remained friends at first but had lost contact since. Guess it's really difficult to be friends after rejection surfaces.

In the second case, I've choose guy A instead of guy B. This time I guess I hurted guy B alot coz his really a very nice guy. Dated guy A for abt 1.5 years and it was filled with good memories. Definately I did not regret my choice as well.

Hmm.. I hope that this friend of mine can really sort tinks out and eventually comes out with a decision that she won't regret. 加油!!

Poisonivy on 7/23/2004 11:46:00 AM

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